Today at work at Brisbane domestic airport, I was operating one of the x-rays (I do the equivalent of the TSA), one of my female colleagues walked over to me and wanted to say about a search she just had completed.
Now, please know that there was no tone or I didn't detect any mocking in what she said but what she said was......
"you know that search I just did (actually I didn't see her do it)?, it was a guy and he had a whole bunch of chick stuff in his bag. I was thinking "are you a crossdresser?" but then his girlfriend came over and that explained things".
Those were her words (she's early 20's). I had been thinking recently of outing myself to her and this has had no influence over my decision to do it. I am mentioning it as more of a case of "well here's an opportunity" but I decided not to do it and maybe never will tell her.
I guess it's just a case of "if only you knew"