the other night I asked my wife why she accepts my crossdressing? I told her that many of my counterparts on this site have SOs that aren't accepting. She said she accepts me because when I put on the clothes I'm still the same person. My personality doesn't change. I don't act differently(except for a few mannerisms) but I am not a Jekyll and Hyde type when the clothes go on.
So have you ever asked you SO why she does or doesn't accept you as a CDer?
What did she say?