Bet this got your attention:
First I am in no way criticizing anyone for the manner in which they enjoy dressing.
I've seen in several threads lately post from married cd's who say their wives allow them to wear panties and or bras and nighties to sleep in. Every time I read such a response I can't help but wonder why?
I can understand the allure of wanting to know what that would feel like if you have never done it. Same as with underdressing while out or at work.
For those of you who do sleep in lingerie or underdress fully after doing this a few times does it not seem like your rubbing it in your wives face all the time? What are you gaining from it and at what cost to your relationship?
I myself when needing to express myself en-femme I do it totally or not at all. I know if my wife was not accepting of my total transformation but allowed me to wear panties I might (and only might) have a better understanding of this. If that were the case I would also know even when she allowed it she would not be wanting me to be in panties but just tolerating me in them. Just that knowledge alone would make it a rare occurrence rather than the norm.
I truly believe my wife has come to know and accept Kendra in part because I do not merge Ken with Kendra by allowing her to see her husband Ken in panties or a nightgown. She only sees me presenting fully male or fully female.
A thread awhile back asked if you allow your wife to watch you dress and most felt really uncomfortable if their wives saw them in partial stages of transforming so I ask again of those of you who do get into bed at night as a man wearing panties or a nightgown why night after night after night?