Of all the things to describe as a burning desire...
I want to have my ears pierced. Thing is, I am not "out". Only my gay room-mate is aware of my dressing. So even though I have had this desire for a year an a half now I haven't been able to act on it because how would I explain it to "normal society". To my daughter, to work, to friends? Seriously sucks.
It is not the gender/sexuality association with pierced ears that would be my problem though. The issue is that it would be so completely out of character for the male me and everyone knows it.
