For the last 30 years I have been self employed, due to changes in location and the
living situation I have started a new job in the sales force of the big box world.
I am a CDer in the somewhat closet world. I underdress as the weather allows and the situation let's me get away with.
The new job place has a very open policy about equality in the workplace with concerns about gender.
The situation is that I am working with a large groupe in direct contact with the public.
There are several Gay men in my department, they actually are the more productive members of the team, I have no problem except that one of these members noticed that I was wearing a sports bra, I have somewhat larger breasts than most and the support Is nice, he made several comments that I felt were out of place.
I lost my cool and returned with a statement (no one cares if your gay so why do you care if I ware a bra?) his return was that CDing was F***ed up!,.
If he reports me I will most likely get written up.
It is this attitude that wears on my desire to be part of the outside work force, there is protection for for all except us.
I will change my habits for a while and see what the outcome of all this is, but I will
not change who I am just to be part of the quiet generation.
Wonderwho