I just remembered something that happened last week, my in- laws had out of town guest and were in the area and dropped by. My wife had cut some cake and I made and served the coffee, and the gentlemen said to me, that at his house the women serve and make the coffee, I told him well in this house I make the coffee, my wife had to put in her two cents and told him, the women of the house did make and serve you coffee. He didn't laugh but my wife gave me a wink. LOL