Ever since I disclosed my CD with my wife, we have decided together to lose weight and start exercising. I started trying to lose weight about two weeks ago and so far I have lost 10 pounds, but I have 90 more to go. I really let myself go and allowed my weight to get out of control. Before I gained so much weight I had a tendency to be very skinny when I did exercise. I don't want to build a muscular physique, but I don't want to be a skinny beanpole again either. While I don't have the desire to be public with my dressing, I do enjoy my sessions when my clothes fit better. Should I simply accept the beanpole or is there something I can do to build a more feminine physique with some muscle tone?