I feel better about cding when I am doing something useful (which so far is just cleaning), but I feel less guilty about cding when I actually participate in chores (the guilt is just an old self worth thing, but I am growing out of that slowly anyways).
I know that this far from a new and novel idea, but I realized that I actually enjoy cleaning more when I CD vs when I am dressed male. Just today I had my day off from work and I dressed up with my newly purchased berry colored heels (thanks to my wonderful SO for purchasing these adorable shoes). I just enjoyed my first time dressing in a month, cleaning, and having a day off from work after a stressful week. And it felt really good to do something while dressed, almost makes ya feel normal
Ps- I will try to post a photo or 3 soon showing my new shoes!