I'm married and and my wife accepts. But it has also been the source of conflict at times. I finally came to the realization that even though she accepts Zoe, she doesn't really want to be involved. More importantly, I also realize that this is OK. For too long, I wanted her to be involved with my crossdressing and anything short of enthusiastic involvement was a sign of her not being accepting. Because crossdressing is a "me" activity, it can sometimes encroach on "we" activities. It's my fault for not focusing on the "we" activities and allowing Zoe to take up too much of my time at the expense of focusing on our relationship as husband and wife. I actually fell liberated in coming to the realization that my wife doesn't want to be involved. But that just means that I have to work on our relationship which admittedly needs work. A young child doesn't help matters either lol.
