I dress to feel normal. I can't speak for anyone else.
I dress to feel normal. I can't speak for anyone else.
Probably because I have some kind of fetish for female clothing, which might be the cause of some humiliation fetish. This might be the result of my ****ed up childhood or very alternative upbringing which was very controlled. It might be even biological, I don't know. Maybe science will come far enough to see why we crossdress.
I wish I knew. But few things make me feel happier or more at peace.
Hi Rachell. Why do we dress. Many reasons really. I do it because I love dressing in women's clothes and seeing myself looking pretty. I love the feel of them. I have done it for years and will never stop and don't want to either. I personally feel more real dressed than I ever do in man's clothes. If I could I would dress all the time as I think I look better. Many other reasons are there for other people, but if it is not hurting anybody and makes you feel good then why not. Lucy xx
For me it's the way that I feel when I'm dressed. It's probably an indescribable feeling, but euphoric is probably the word that works best.
I've been reading a wealth of information on this as recently I've been extremely curious. My strongest belief is that I already enjoy some of the more feminine things in life, I converse well with others and I am generally open minded to most views and situations.
It feels nice to express myself through Emily.I've only gone to the local LBGTQ club with my girlfriend so far but even the walk from the car to the club is a great experience. Being hit on a few times I've felt a little of what a girl actually feels on a night out. Being able to dress up cute and dance in small heels is a fun experience that myself and my girlfriend really enjoy. She loves that she can have her man and a girls night with the one she loves. I feel very comfortable dressing as a woman and I believe a lot of the experience is about getting in touch with my slightly hidden side. As a Male we are believed to be logical and practical so we wear jeans and a shirt,nothing special but practical all the same. Females enjoy such beauty in the world, get dolled up in little trinkets and outfits that make little practical sense,they do their hair and makeup for hours and go out in skirts and dresses with no pockets, only a purse. I enjoy greatly this experience of seeing the world simply through a more beautiful perspective.
I'm only new to it but a compulsion of sorts and better clothes. Plus I have great legs to show off
I'm currently under the impression that most guys simply don't really want to know. There are so many threads about this in this forum alone that you could probably spend a whole day reading them. So before searching for the answer, consider whether you could accept the worst case possibility. If not, perhaps better left not to look into it. The percentage of TG suicides is quite high compared to the rest of the population, and I believe that it's because a lot of men (and women in the case of FTM folks) discover things about themselves that they simply cannot accept.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
There are many reasons why, some even collide with other reasons and you just can not pin point one all the time..Sexual attraction to the clothing and what they represent as well as appearance or as appearing that representation , sexual preference in presentation( more comfortable as the gender other born as), multi gender .Etc etc..It goes on and on... Why others do not feel this way? We can not be 100 percent sure that they do not ,maybe they have never experimented or have a different hormone balance or it could be their sexual desire isn't as strong and later rely on viagra.. Who knows and who can say I probably wouldn't have never do this if I havn't taken that first step..
I do not!! Claim to be an expert on any topic, when I post a new thread or reply on any thread my imput is strickly that of a crossdresser. Not to offend Gay people , Transexuals or any other life style, I am only commenting on one of my own.