I find myself starting a thread or a post only to stop and cancel it. I am in a fairly rare set of circumstances which my Wife of 16 years enjoys the CD side of me and I have found total acceptance. I know there are many more who have not now, and may never obtain such acceptance from their Wives. With that knowledge, I find myself more reluctant to post on anything which may cause more stress or depression to those individuals. First, forgive me if I have caused additional strain because of my previous disclosures of acceptance. Second, where should the line be drawn, or is there a line?