Is it wrong to be turned on when dressed.

[Lucy Lou]

Well, I am sure some of you girls have felt the same. I dress a couple of times a week sometimes more and it always makes me feel really sensual.

I usually have a moment of doubt before, thinking, "I'm tired, do i really want to go through all that effort", but then I say to myself,' come on this is what you are, do it' and then i paint my nails and that's it I'm hooked and here we go. I always love the whole dressing up moments. The shaving my body, putting on my lingerie, especially if it is new. But when it comes to make up, there is something about that whole thing and when i put my lipstick on at the end I get a twinge.

There is just something about doing the whole thing that makes me feel sexy. I know that I have to do it and it isn't just a sexual gratification thing because I often dress just to be dressed and when I do, I usually sleep with my stockings and panties and a teddy. I love waking up and feeling those wonderful items next to my body.

I have often thought that I should ware my lingerie under my cloths when i go to work but haven't yet. I know that there are many people who do and one day i will but there is something that always stops me. Who knows, the thought of being in a car accident or something and then being found out, which is silly really because one part of me wants everyone to know that I cross dress and the other thinks that It would be detrimental to my custody arrangements with my daughter.

Anyway, I still feel very excited when I am dressed, which isn't a crime and I am sure that there are many others who feel the same.

Lucy Lou xxx

[Wildaboutheels]

Wrong? No

But Verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry silly. Humans don't have the capacity to control what turns them on.

Or OFF. [In the case of GGs] Worrying or obsessing over something we have no control over simply does not make sense.

The Reality is... Love does not conquer all despite many here who insist it should.

Lastly, the majority here obviously put the O phase behind them with the passing years.

But some don't.

[Lucy Lou]

it is funny that you made the comment about drumming or drummer because that is what I am, A drummer, and a good one at that. Lucy Lou.xx {:

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Lucy, How can it be so wrong if it feels so good.

[Lucy Lou]

Good point. it does feel good so 'what the hell.' Thanks. lucy xx

[Shadeauxmarie]

Is it wrong to be turned on when dressed?

No, it happens to me every time.

[darla_g]

I think western society in general has made crossdressing a bit of a taboo. But this is the same societal norm that has vilified homosexuality as well. and we see how those norms are being turned upside down now.

I think if you enjoy doing it, aren't harming yourself or your loved ones then why not dress? and hey if you can be turned on by it too so much the better.

[Teresa Monsivais]

Does it turn me on? Yes! I have noticed that when I do it more frequently It can become more naturally, like I get use to it but at the same time I can become tired of it as well when I do it more frequently. So for me its more for sexual gratification... and it allows me to wear my number one item, which are heels!!! I get bored just wearing them around the house I need to dance, shoe dipping/play and walk long distance in them :-)

[secretcd1]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Personally I get "excited" most of the time when I dress.

[sanderlay]

Lucy Lou wrote: "Is it wrong to be turned on when dressed?"

For myself, I see the first part of the question... "Is it wrong to be turned on..." my quick answer is No. I acknowledged that I'm a sexual being and arousal is part of being me and I like who I am. So naturally if I add the next section of the question... "... when dressed?" my answer is still No. Why should what I wear make a difference? They're just clothes, male or female.

Now I will tell you I don't feel that flush as much now that I dress full time. These are the clothes I wear everyday and so it seems normal to me like I used to feel waring male clothes, if that makes sense.

Before I went full time I under dressed everyday, wore female under clothes. It did acclimate me to not being aroused as much.

[Confucius]

Is it wrong to get aroused from cross-dressing? No.
Is getting aroused from cross-dressing a problem? It can become a problem, yes.
For instance, many cross-dressers cannot achieve orgasm without cross-dressing or at least fantasizing about cross-dressing. This is a major complaint from wives of cross-dressers. They feel as if they are not attractive to their husbands, or that their husbands are using cross-dressing to have sex with themselves. They feel as if they are reduced to their husband's second love, and they may consider cross-dressing as cheating. For more information on this topic please check out the following forum: http://www.crossdresserswives.com/revision/forum1.html

[Lacyfem]

What a good thread. I always get turning on when I dress. It's usually when I first start, slip on a pair of panties and bra and knowing how much I love the transformation and the desire to be fem and wanted by a man. Dressing does take some time if fully dressing with makeup taking up a bit of time, It's about this time I start to calm down a bit as makeup takes some concentration also, but when I'm done I then start getting aroused again when I finally slip on my hose or thigh highs, a dress or skirt and finally some heels. If I go back to the first time I slipped on a bra and panty I was 10 years old and believe me I did get quite excited at that time but that's a different story. I've grown since those days but I always get somewhat excited when dressing and like someone said when I buy new lingerie I get really excited even before the silk hits the skin. I know many here are straight which is fine, but I'm not and when I dress I always think of dressing for a man who likes me fem and if that doesn't turn on a bisexual cd then nothing will. Love the excitement dressing brings on.

[Robin777]

When I first started dressing i got turned on all the time. Now that I am older, it only happens occasionally. If it's not hurting anyone enjoy it.

[bridget01]

It's what started me dressing up and what, after all this time later, continues to drive the irresistible urge to out to buy more lingerie, hosiery, heels, clothes and makeup.

[loyal]

I love to look at the dummies in lingerie shops. It excites me to imagine wearing all those. I sometimes walk specially down to market to look at that and it gets me hot.

[Tanya+]

I am choosing not to dressed unless i am really in the mood, i don't want to lose the thrill. I get turned on when i plan to dress and as i am dressing, but when i am dressed it tends to make me feel relaxed and sensual and less likely to go finish myself off.

I have worn delicates under my man clothes but now, because it IS actually a sexual activity for me, i don't do it at work and when i am being Dad, simply because it isn't appropriate. I don't want to turn myself on sexually around people that are not similarly motivated/inclined/predisposed/consenting.

I don't want to overcompensate for a long history of self-repression by taking yet more energy from other important aspects of my life. So i won't be playing chess with my friend tonight en femme, even though he would probably be cool with it, because me being turned on would distort my ability to relate to him as a friend as he deserves.

One day i will meet a Xdressing chess player, i would even stoop to backgammon,cards or checkers.

[Jackie7]

Tanya, I am a cross dressing chess player, also backgammon and scrabble. I'd try to thump you no matter what either player was wearing. I play lots of games with my grandchildren, but I am not out to them so I'd only be underdressed...

To the OP's point, yes, even after all these years I can get turned on by dressing... If I want to, and I decide to slow down and really get into it. Especially when I am putting on the same kind of stuff that triggered me more than 50 years ago - stockings, corset or girdle, bra and slip. These days my wardrobe is a lot bigger than that, and most of the time I am just getting dressed without putting attention on my turn-on, but it is always there and accessible.

[trisha kobichenko]

right, wrong...hmmm.
I dropped my motorcycle on I 405 and my wife was concerned that someone might notice that i was wearing panties...went through a series of medical tests where my choice of clothing was pretty obvious and no one really cared.
Trisha

[franlee]

After all these years I still feel turned on by crossdressing. The day it dose nothing for me is the day I quit, just that simple. But then I am a crossdresser and don't have any problem with that and understood it very early in the game.

[Diana81]

I'm no expert, but the opposite. But I don't think someone that makes you feel good, and harms no one, can ever be wrong.

[lesli]

turned on? oh, i have no problem being turned on dressing or after being dressed. i am turned on, but it's a funny way: i'm not sexually looking for a partner, but i feel very sexual--flirty and alive. i have outward signs of being turned on--the pokies in my bra and thankfully the tuck and tape keep the other in check. i smile, i flirt, i giggle, and i have a good time and all the time i'm very turned on and feel it--it's intoxicating, and i love it!
hugs,
lesli

[Beverley Sims]

I always have the light turned on when I am dressed because it is difficult to admire my overall beauty when in the dark.

[Teresa]

If I had to make a list of what Cding does for me the turn on would be no1. I might just take some time now to complete my list I think by the time I've finished I won't want to wear drab at all !

[Debra Sparks]

For me it's taking the first steps in a pair of heels and stockings
When all dressed . I could walk for hours when done up . Love it

[Jaylyn]

Ditto to Nicole Scott's reply, very well said and I can see me in her words. She and I love the same type makeup and feel that arousal when dressed. Just seeing myself in the mirror and feeling those feelings coming from within is very natural.
I do sometimes just enjoy the panty hose underneath but when the whole package comes together it is an amazing turnon