At home I dress full time with a few exceptions (work and church). I dress for out of the house androgynous but all female clothes. My wife and I discussed her parents upcoming 2 week visit. Although I agreed not to wear skirts/dresses for their visit, I will be wearing my normal clothes. She called her mother yesterday and told her about this. She (MIL) was accepting but also stated that it may be different once she actually sees me. My FIL may be different. Old school Vietnam vet, but has softened with time. MIL will tell FIL. Wife offered to answer any questions, but already covered the basic 2. No - I'm not gay, nor am I transitioning. Our annual visits are normally quite good. Any suggestions/experience on how this can be done without total chaos?