I sat down with my Wife today and asked her very candidly about how she felt about my dressing, was it just tolerance, acceptance, or something else. I get myself worked up that she isn't being totally honest because she loves me, rosy glasses and all. She has told me just recently while looking at wigs she not only accepts it but has enjoyed this side of me "blossoming". She did say that she wishes she could gain a better understanding of why I dress, but tried to reassure me it is more out of scientific curiosity than anything else. I want to be able to try to give her something to hold onto, but like most of you, I really don't have an answer to the science of why. I am a man, I want to be a man, I am straight, and I don't want to dress full time. Once a week has been a pretty good average for me, I would emphasize average. I just don't normally have more opportunities unless I am traveling, then it's usually every other night.
So while I meditate on my reasons, what have my fellow CD's learned about yourselves and some reasons you believe you dress? Has anything you learned been a help to your Wives in understanding the mental/emotional/physical/scientific reasons you feel play a role in your desire to don the clothing of a woman?