The other day I was at my girlfriends place because I needed to borrow her washer. However while I was washing clothes her washer decided to quit working. So I didn't have any clean underwear or bras. So she let me borrow a pair of panties and a bra. Is this weird that I wore her panties and bra or no? I have heard people say that that is a big no no but I have also heard people say it's fine. What do y'all think?
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Okay to borrow with permission- but you do need your own of course. Underwear is personal, body odors, sweat, etc.-
Sans permission, maybe in an emergency, but not as a regularly.
Think of it this way, would you let your brother or dad borrow underwear or would you mind? probably not if it was an emergency.
If she offered, then no problem! I would love it if that happened to me, but it won't, I wouldn't fit hers!
"Normal is what you get when you average out the weirdness that everybody has." Quote from my SO
Normal is a setting on a washing machine, or another word for average.
The fact that I wear a skirt as a male should not be taken as a comment on what you do, or do not wear, or how you wear it.
My personal opinion is...
... unless they're given to you my answer is Yes, they are off limits. That situation is very weird.
Panties are a very personal piece of clothing. They can be cheap to buy, but not always. I personally keep spare clothes in my car just in case I get stuck somewhere. And No, I would not lend mine. They would be a gift. I would not want them back!
Bras are much more expensive and again very personal. They can be stretched out of shape or washed incorrectly, and have a short life. So No, I would not lend a good bra to someone. I would not want it back!
Last edited by sanderlay; 03-19-2014 at 01:56 AM. Reason: Clarity
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No problem...It's NOT weird...she's your girlfriend, not a stranger. I would love to have my girlfriend share my panties.
okay, only with her permission. Never sneak her intimates.
I feel its okay to borrow, as long as she is okay with it. gift her a new pair in return
Hell-o Kaylyn, Did you ask her to borrow the panties and bra, or did she offer them?
In general I would agree with everyone here, if she's not ok with you wearing her panties, no amount of washing can erase the memory that you wore them. Sorry, but going commando might be the better option.
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Hi,
I have loned to a friend of ours one of my skirts , Jos asked me if i would mind i said of cause not and if needed knickers as well.. all women here, for us we dont have an issue, other wise no i dont lone my clothes to others unless theres a need,
to just take and wear others clothes = knickers and under's with out asking is a no no . to me those are very personal ,
...noeleena...
How about that. Spend a lifetime trying to get into a
girlfriends panties and look how it turns out.
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i agree with many who say it's OK as long as it is OK with her. To me, it is never OK to use someone else's clothes without permission.
In the case of underwear, there are some people who would never wear underwear that has been worn by someone else, so they would never borrow or loan underwear. To me, once something has been through the wash, the other person has been washed off it and it is as neutral as if it hasn't been worn before.
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It's not wrong... but it is forbidden!
Of she offered them, its not a problem.
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As long as she is okay with it I wouldn't see a problem
Well she's your girlfriends so presumably you are intimate with her and she offered them. So no big deal. I think it's fair to say we all started off wearing someone else's panties. So it's hardly an issue. It's really common for sisters to wear each other's underwear. Mine did anyway and they wore mine without knowing. I wore theirs of course without their permission. Unless you are particularly squeamish about the whole issue it's not a problem.
Girls mix nd match and swap as a normal course of events when living together.
There is a lot of share, share alike.
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Since she lent both bra and panties, I must assume she is ok with the OPs choice in underwear, and since she lent them its not weird. Wearing her undies behind her back should be a no-no, but I am quite sure a few of us have been there. I wish I had had a girlfriend that would have offered me to wear her bra and panties.
I'm with the majority here... if she offered them to you then that sounds like she's OK with the whole idea. But... I do have to ask... if you didn't have anything else to wear when the washer broke, just what were you wearing while you were washing clothes?!?!?!?!?!!!
Kind of what I was thinking.Originally Posted by Lacy PJs
I'm with the majority here... if she offered them to you then that sounds like she's OK with the whole idea. But... I do have to ask... if you didn't have anything else to wear when the washer broke, just what were you wearing while you were washing clothes?!?!?!?!?!!!
She gave them to you to wear, I assume they were new or clean...would you question is she lent you a sweater? (Besides you did wear them...you cannot undo that)
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I'm with the majority here... if she offered them to you then that sounds like she's OK with the whole idea. But... I do have to ask... if you didn't have anything else to wear when the washer broke, just what were you wearing while you were washing clothes?!?!?!?!?!!!So glad I wasn't the only one to ponder this question! LOL
But I think in your particular case, you are OK borrowing some undies
So happy to find a site devoted to my passion, I hope you and I can become friends, if not at least you got to see my panties!
My wife wears my underwear all the time without asking. She wears them over her own almost as if she's wearing them as a pair of shorts. I could care less.
It did sound very suspicious, but I went ahead and answered. I have not heard the exact question phrased similarly, but I have heard about guys that went on vacation and forgot undies or ran out of clean undies and their SO suggested they wear panties. Unless your SO knew you wore bras/panties regularly and was ok with it, I have no idea why they would lend a bra too. I wish my wife would suggest that I wear her undies, but she is hung up on stereotypes. And if by some miracle she suggested I wear her panties, she would never in a million years offer a bra.
Turning that thread question around - would you lend her YOUR panties and bra? Another solution would be hand wash your undies and wait until they are dry. Personally, none of my lingerie will ever be on loan! Enjoy.
Not at all, now if you took them with out her knowing that is a no no
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