I've reached the point where I'm comfortable buying undies in public, but only as my male self (way too tall to pull it off as Brenda!) I passed the crucial test at Lane Bryant a few months back when I went in and bought some panties. While I was in line at the register I just went into a zone of "calm" and felt perfectly comfortable. The sales ladies were very friendly and delighted to help me. Yesterday I picked up two skirts I had tailored (lost some weight yay!). Again, the woman was very friendly, no questions asked.
Now I know some of us could pull this off en femme, but the irony is I can only do it commando- as a guy! Is there an "official term for this? Appreciate any feedback!
Brenda B