My wife went on an extended trip last week. She was with her girlfriend who was having some medical procedures done. this left me with a LOT of time as Marsha. Yes, at first, everything needed to be dragged out, and tried on. but with the knowledge that there was no interruption coming, I quickly settled down and my mind set changed to one of wonderful quiet and relaxation.
I was able to let Marsha out with no restrictions per say, and just enjoy letting her free. The 'fashion show' stopped, her focus changed to 'being' , and she enjoyed the next couple of days (and nights) just living.
i know that all of you that are full time will just go, ya thats normal, but i want to know what gals like me think, parttime, in the closet. etc. does your mind set change when you have extended time with no chance of interruption?