Is coming to this forum putting those who are in the closet at higher risk of getting caught by a spouse?
This question has come to mind as I have been watching the string of gals getting caught by their wives. I am wondering why so many. One thought I have had is that this forum could be part of the cause. We see the girls who are not in the closet doing so much with their fem sides. They go out, take lots of pictures, and have fun. The rest of us want that for ourselves. I know it is that way for me. The stories the other girls tell has helped me do things I never would have imagined otherwise. This is not a problem for me though as my wife knows and accepts Charlene. But for those with unknowing spouses, I can see it being a problem. They start taking risks to try to be like those of us that are out. This puts them more at risk for being caught.
Maybe it is time for those in the closet to re-evaluate telling their spouses. Coming clean on your own may cause problems, but it is going to be a lot less than if they have to catch you and confront you. It also takes away a good portion of the betrayal factor. And as LindaHexi's recent thread shows they may be more accepting than you might expect. Even if they hate it and tell you to do it when they are not around, that is a lot better than hiding it. Now I know that some wives will not tolerate it at all, so each of you must carefully consider whether or not to take the risk. But please do consider telling them. I hate to see my sisters in pain when these confrontations take place.
GG's please add your thoughts and suggestions to this.