Hi,
I am new here. I left an intro in the intro threads. But wanted to kick off my first official discussion here. A few days ago I saw a thread about a mother not wanting to see her son in a dress (an Elsa dress). That triggered some thoughts that I wanted to discuss. You see my wife knows that I struggle with crossdressing and last we discussed it we agreed it was something I was not going to do. So I find it nothing short of ironic that my wife does not have a problem when my son and daughter play dress up and switch clothes and I do.
Her reasoning is they are just playing and if you don't make a big deal of it, it won't ever be an issue and something that develops into a desire later in life. I fear that it will, I don't want my son to live with the same internal struggles that I have (though, I know he will always have a father who will be by his side regardless of his decisions in life, something I didn't necessarily have.
I was just wondering if any of you have had these thoughts and discussions within your own familes and where did you arrive at?
Thank you,
Millie