Yup, sitting here and my roommate and good friend just walked in on me dressed. Extremely awkward isn't a sufficient statement.
Yup, sitting here and my roommate and good friend just walked in on me dressed. Extremely awkward isn't a sufficient statement.
damn hope it all works out for you
The good thing is you don't have to hide it anymore, just hope he is accepting and it works out.
I'm curious how it works out!
/hug
- MM
- Madame Moose - on my way to Anne
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"I yam what I yam and tha's all what I yam." -- Popeye the Sailor
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And when I am for myself, what am 'I'? And if not now, when?" - Hillel the Elder
Ya I sent a text, probably not the best way to approach it since we live together. I'm kinda freaking out and appreciate the input from everyone
stay calm and just remember you are who you are
I'm sure it's a little uncomfortable right now but hang in there, it should open things up for a discussion but it might not happen right away
Yes, stay calm... if your roommate is a good friend, truly, you will get through this and laugh about it later. In fact it might not hurt to try and see some of that humor right now, honey.
Hugs
Easier said then done!! I'm trying to see humor in it...
UPDATE: so I live in Georgia and this kid, good friend and all, is born raised and from the south. He just texted back with a message of support. I'm still freaking out, but it's a bit better. Surprising for sure
Last edited by Lorileah; 04-15-2014 at 03:51 PM. Reason: merged consecutive posts. try and merge posts with edit when you post so close together thanks
Nothing to hide now.
Do not let anyone repress you.
If you are not you, then who are you?
What has happened, has happened. You can't change it.
Take a breath, and do what you *can* do.. manage what happens next.
Be strong.
<3
- MM
- Madame Moose - on my way to Anne
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"I yam what I yam and tha's all what I yam." -- Popeye the Sailor
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And when I am for myself, what am 'I'? And if not now, when?" - Hillel the Elder
thats good to hear....got to wonder how his feeling
Don't push him, let him come to terms with you, if he want to talk, answer question, he may want to not say anything, and leave thing as they were. It is not funny, but someday you might be able to laugh about it, but not to day. Keep us up on what happens.
sure you felt like you were in macys window, he/they may be freaking out about it as well, once the shock wears hope that it works out for everyone,
at least their is discussion now.....
....Mykell
i dressed like a girl and i liked it!crossdressing...theirs an app for that
Can I just say this experience sucks :-/
Just try and stay positive I was freaking when my gf found my girls cloths but it all worked out
Were you fully dressed? Time to sit down and have a little one on one with him once he gets back....At least he text back a message of support...no use in freaking out now...just move forward from here. Wish you the BEST and keep us updated!
GREAT BIG HUGS!!!
Most people are accepting when the dust settles, it's not like you have committed a crime. Things are getting better by the moment judging by your recent text.
Good luck, I am holding my breath for the next update.
Love
Heather Xx
Things happen for a reason, so it was meant to be. Take this opportunity to explain the why & etc. to your roommate and I'm sure he'll be OK with it.
" I love the life I live and I live the life I love"
Thanks ladies, really I don't think the text can sufficiently explain it, but your responses have been what I've been clinging to as I hide in my bedroom. His response has been outstanding, but can I say I'm still hiding in my room terrified to walk out? And I think the worst part was I wasn't fully dressed, just wearing the clothes, like the worst way someone who is dressing can look :-/
It'll be OK hon. It surely will. Younger people are often pretty accepting nowadays.
Might be a good night to open a bottle of wine...:-)
Time heals... for both of you. The waiting is what sucks!
Kate, a lot of us have probably had a similar experience. Happened to me, couldn't breath for minutes. It'll be OK, I'm sure.
Get back out there, honey.
Christen x
“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing
and rightdoing there is a field.
I'll meet you there.” - Rumi.
At least you still have one friend.Let the others follow his lead.
Its done and no changing that just deal with each person individually and see how it goes.
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