While I'm right there behind you Paula, (You kick butt, girl!) I think I have identified an undercurrent which matters in this discussion. Not that it changes the discussion, just that it identifies an important dividing line.
"Free to be yourself" (Rights) vs "A snicker free environment" (Acceptance)
I know we want both. I don't need Joe Sixpack to accept me, I just don't want him and his buddies to mug me in an alley.
Acceptance would be nice, but I'd honestly be happy with not being discriminated against. While they are both important goals, they are not the *same* goal.
- MM