Look at male fashion from 16th - 19th centuries. Very pretty, nice fabrics, some high heels, hose, wigs makeup....????
Think of movies...Barry Lyndon, Amadeus, Le Roi Dances, the Libertine, Vautel, Tous les Matins du Monde, The Madness of King George, The Draftman's Contract, any of the movies about Henry XIII or Elizabeth I.....very "currently feminine" qualities to those looks.
Any others I've missed?
Look at any other species, mammal, bird...it's the male with the gorgeous plumage, wonderful coat, mane, flaming blue butt!
Things are 'a changin' but society is the thing that is out of sinc with reality as far as male fashion and obvious appearances.
So what I think is that any "real" man would either secretly, or openly delight in a "fashionably enhanced" transformation which our current society has labelled "feminine"
That puts us on the inside and all of those rawhide totin', beer swillin' rock-jocks on the outside.