I have an issue I need help with. I'm by no means new to this site, just someone who has never come out in anyway. I'm a behind closed doors CD. My wife has know for years that I CD when she is not around. But does not support this in anyway. So needless to say I'm very limited to what I can do. So, recently I changed jobs. Without giving to many details, this job involves receiving donations from the public. Not just any donations either. Most everything that comes in is new with tags or packaging. Also, most everything is received or go through me. Don't get ahead of me. I think you can see where I am going with this. I have never seen so many nice things. Anything you can think of I've seen. Panties, bras, thigh high, high heels, dresses, vintage, etc.. So my issue is right from wrong. I see things I want and could have but that would also be stealing. I don't dare ask for anything. So what do I do? Any advise how I should deal with the temptation?