So I'm not well known here (I'm working on that as I can ladies I promise, I love this forum!), but I wanted to give an update to the room-mate coming back early and walking in on me dressed post I made last month. Him and I are back to being close friends, although we have not discussed the dressing at all (I know I'll be harangued by some ladies for this, but he is from Georgia and not only do we live together I work in the same lab as him, this is a difficult conversation to start, but in this regard I apologize for any girls I'm letting down given the platform). This discovery occurred right as I was applying to a business program where I'm a grad student and also while I had my phd candidacy defense. And I was accepted to the business program as well as declared a phd candidate I don't want this to appear as self promotion because while I'm extremely happy I've achieved those goals, I literally could not have done it without the amazing support I received in the afternoon my room mate walked in on me. You all don't even know me and you offered your support. There are not words that exist that can truly say what that meant for me let alone how important it was for me to get through that horrific event! So thank you ladies, that's my update. And I only ask that we all are so open to helping other ladies in need when they need it, no matter how far or much they dress or the gender they identify with. We are all really cool ladies thank you all so so very much!