I have not tried to present female in perhaps 8 years. I only did it then so I could wear clothes. I don't feel like a girl. I just love to dress in nice things.
I don't go out a lot, but when I have most recently, I was normally wearing a skirt, hose, ladies shoes (often heels), and either a blouse or a mens polo shirt. Of course, I prefer to wear a blouse because the idea that it is all women's wear is (for some reason) important. But never do I wear makeup, wig, nor bra. Neither do I carry a purse. That means I need pockets. That is a difficult thing to find!
I present male and am just myself. I suppose people are surprised to see a guy in a skirt, but they sneak a look and otherwise try not to stare. Really, I don't think people always sneak a look. I have said this before here: People react to me similarly to how I react to people with significant tattoos. I look and try to soak it in, but then I treat them normal and lose interest in them.
Here is a picture from my most recent outing. I went swing dancing. 20 somethings will dance with a man in a skirt.
http://joeypress.files.wordpress.com/2014/04/dance3.jpg
Joey