I was told by many that the road of transition will not be easy and I have already experienced a lot of issues to me comming out to people being transgendered. While there has been a great deal of support, there has been a great deal hostility and non acceptance from my ex and her family. Like on Friday, it was my day to visit my children at my ex's house, not the best idea, but I was trying to work with her. But being the controlling person, she was making demands that I refused to follow. Well what soon followed was her mother grabbing my face and saying something in Spanish, but quicky left after I told her to be quite and back off.
Short time later her brother showed up and started getting in my face, making comments about how I wear boots, dye my hair and how it looks a lot nicer then any other girl at his work, how I wear women's clothes, and that I don't deserve and should not be allowed to see my kids. He believes he has every right to make such a statement because my kids are his family and what I'm doing is wrong and they don't need to be exposed to the things I do or who I am.
He was trying to provoke me into fighting him, but I refused. So he process to call me names, how I'm weak, what I was going to do about him being in my face, and how manly it was to put my hands on my hips. He was seeing this was going nowhere and told my ex to take the kids and leave so he can take care of business and at that moment I tried getting by him. He instantly threw me to the ground, warped his harm around my neck and started chocking me (I almost passed out), and telling my ex to call the cops. A short time later the cops came and told me put my hands behind my back, asked if I had weapons, patted me down, told me to sit on the curb with my legs crossed, treated me like I was the problem and they would testify for my ex if asked. It was so humiliating to sit out on the street and see the neighbors come out and look at me.
Even though I did nothing wrong, my ex's brother was the one to assault me (my glasses got damaged and I have bruises on my legs), I was the one who got in trouble with the police as if I have no rights being the father. So on Monday I scheduling a court date Thor custody, filing assult charges, and get this situation resolved. Until then I'm no longer allowed over to the house , nor am I allowed to call to talk to my children.