The only person who knows about my crossdressing is my wife. I was confronted by her when she found my stash. That was when I was 42. Still at the DADT level with her. I am still scared what my friends, family, and children would think about it if they were told. My family and friends have very conservative views about most issues. This site has helped me greatly, and I find the experiences of the other members both hopeful and inspiring. I am slowly building courage over time....