So recently, my wife and I had a guy friend of mine staying with us for a few weeks while he left his gf and got on his own feet. Long story short, she told him one night. He held on to that information until he got caught playing us against each other and he left. Then he began texting everyone he knew that we knew to tell them. Luckily, my wife is denying it, and one of my oldest friends (i told him last year even though i thought he would be the worst to deal with) is laughing off all suggestions of that sort. Now, I don't care if anyone and everyone knows, but I have children that i don't want to make life harder for. They are boys going into middle school, and kids can be so cruel these days.