Have You Ever Been "Hit On" in Girl Mode?
First up, this is not much, but I went through the drive through at McDonald's. When I got to the window to pick up my food, a girl inside complimented me on my hair (wig, mind you). She then asked me if I was doing anything and if I had a date. I just laughed. I may have pursued it if she was my type.
Have any of you been "hit on" or "picked up" while en femme (from girls or guys)?
Yes and it was flattering, exhilarating, liberating and validating. Yet at the same time a bit creepy, scary & somewhat unnerving.
No, but if it ever happens it would be the most flattering thing ever.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]-I Just Want Someone To Tell Me I'm Pretty-
I suppose it's an inevitable part of playing the role. I have been flirted with at times, yes. For the most part it has been a flattering experience but only if the person approaching me is polite and kind. I have been grabbed and pinched and groped too, and that was about as close to being raped as I'd ever want to be and it was hurtful and demeaning.
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Yep, but im always dressed as a girly, thats how i ment my bf of 10 years, i was working and he came into my shop he liked what i was wearing on that day it was the combination of girls clothes being worn by a guy that attracted him, said i looked cute and asked me out, i could hardly say no he was hot as hell the rest is history! He later confessed to taking ages to pluck up enough courage to come in and see me haha.
Other than that ive had chatup lines and my bum pinched and slapped more times than i can remember lol its all good harmless fun though xx
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As I was coming out of Taco Bell on the way to work, I got on my bike (28-speed)
and started to move away. A woman was in a car and came out of the drive-thru
lane, and stared at me up and down.
I've been whistled at a few times and such. Nothing threatening, and as long as
it stays that way, I am fine with it.
Amy M. Jackson
Oddly several times and each time at a gay bar. Oddly because each time it was a woman doing the hitting. And if I might say, young attractive gay and bi women. I wasn't available, but I was flattered and enjoyed some very good conversations.
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As I go out more I seem to attract other females. They think I am a GG at first until they get really close or I start talking. When they think I am not a GG that's when they start flirting more and complimenting more about my style. It's a great feeling to flirt with females en femme.
Some men have tried hitting on me mostly in gay bars, but I just tell them I'm not interested. Most places I go to dressed are where there is mostly women.
Laurie cute picture! you look like a GG to me
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This ^ exactly.Originally Posted by bimini1
Joni
I was out at a LGBT bar this past weekend and was hit on and offered a drink. It was really nice to be the one offered a drink for once. Thankfully they weren't pushy/creepy.
Hell-o Navy, Yes, very unexpectedly, I was out for a late night walk in town, mind you heels are not very practical where I live, so I drive to town for these walks, I have an area that I like, very touristy, lots of police presence, and I feel safe walking there.
So As I approach a hotel shopping area, to my surprise a guy comes along on a bicycle. He rides right past me, within a few feet. He stops about 25 feet later, turns around and pedals back to me. Im thinking OH NO! NOW WHAT? He rides a little bit past me again and stops, NOW IT"S, OH SH!T !!! I turn slightly away so he cant get a clear look at me, and he simply says "Hi".
Never having spoken to ANYONE while en-femme, all I could do was answer with a quietly spoken "Hey" and I immediately started to walk away from him. As I walked away I here him say " Your beautiful, you know that right?". I about cried, what a nice compliment, then I about laughed because he clearly had no idea! I continued walking back towards my car, well this guy kinda paralleled me at a distance, I kept my eye on him and his pace matched mine, and he's on a bike. I'm thinking WTF, Heel on Heels is about to happen.
Next thing you know I run into another guy, 20 ft. away, I think no problem, and keep walking calmly. Well this new guy says "Excuse Me", and I just freak and double time it to my car.
As I approach the car, the first guy is there, about 20 ft away, he says " I think your beautiful, you appear to be upset , and I just wanted to make sure you knew that". As he's saying this I'm opening my door, get in, and drive off.
The poor guy was being very kind, I felt a bit guilty, but wasn't prepared for this at all.
I've been back to the same area, a few times, and have not seen this guy again.
Much Love,
Kristyn
I smile because you are my friend, and
I laugh because there is nothing you can do about it!!!
I have had guys hit on me,
I took it in two ways:
1) It made me feel like I did a decent job looking like a gal so that made me happy
2) it creeped me out the way the guys hit on me... if they do that to GGs like the way they looked, whistled and said thing like "Got dayum!" or "mm mm mm" at me, then I could understand why GGs think men can be creeps. For more context, I have been hit on by gay men (while in boy mode) and it was not creepy. I am not into dudes but I do find a "classy" hit on as flattering from a man (in guy or girl mode). In girl mode the dudes were just plain ol' leches...
Hi Navy-Wam, Maybe she read you and was interested in having fun.
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Yes and I think it is a validation ,but it is also a bit scary .
Only when i was much younger, skinnier and much cuter.
and by both men and women, one was by a young GG that was younger than my daughters.
Ah . . . Um . . . hmmm . . . Nope. One look at me and most people know exactly who I am, so no smarmy pick-up lines for this gal.
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Isha
I hope that guys or other M2Fs don't hit on me. Well, I don't know how I will be after I start hormones. Maybe I will actually like it.
Charlotte
I've had a creepy boy hit on me. I was completely in male mode (not even shaped eyebrows if I remember right), and the guy decided he had to "convert" me. It was my friends boyfriends birthday (I had gone in my friends car), so I was stuck with a guy who was trying to get me drunk and to dance with him all night.
Creeeeepo
MzVanessa, You are so right about Plenty of Fish! I have been on there for years, and have had almost no action on there, period. I have answered many womens ads, and had almost no replies, and about one reply to my ad, every two or three years. It must be the women have way too many male fish on there, to choose from, and the lady fish are not biting!
I was propositioned by a guy at night once. I do not think it was sincere as much as I was seen as easy prey. Since that episode I am far more femininely careful of my destinations and surroundings.
Another time I was parked on a side street and as I rounded the corner at the main street I noticed a fire engine approaching from back on the side street. I was the only girl in sight and certainly the only one wearing heels, a skirt, and a dress blazer. As I scurried down the main road the fire engine turned on the main street towards me, and when opposite, slowed way down, blew their horn in two short honks, smiled, waved, and went on their way. It might have been a compliment of sorts. I felt complimented and also like my personal space was breached at the same time.
Other than those two times, having been out in public, not just gay bars, maybe a hundred times, those two were the only times.
Maybe if my hips were't so big or my legs were thinner"............ Maybe I am just fat?
But really I dress just for my own pleasure. However the compliments from GGs such as they like my dress, or nails, shoes, purse, lashes, or that I look beautiful all mean the most. Like one artist complimenting another.
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A wise friend told me once, girls dress for other girls, not for boys (as a rule). Makes some sense to me.
I have been, by guys when at a gay bar with some friends ( young GG couple, great kids- their engagement party).
To be honest, I was in a place where I would be viewed as easy prey. And the guys were creepy, I'll give them that. The girls I was with kept me safe, warding them off at times. And I learnt something - if asked, the response 'I'm a lesbian' is generally respected and clearly understood
That same night, one of the GGs friends at their party mistook me for a girl. That made my night
Learning to be me - the best me I can be
I have been hit on by both...and its all good.
So far, only by really creepy guys. I don't mind guys - I really don't. But for whatever reason, the ones that seem to like me are blunt about what they want, not especially attractive, and generally really freaking scary looking. I seem to attract the real pervs and ex-cons.An actual pickup line, rather than a crude proposition would be a big improvement!
As have I! Frankly, I've found the women to be a bit smoother in their approach.
