So I have been planning on transitioning by this summer and came across this term "autogynephilia". I think I found something that may describe me, and am hoping somebody can answer some questions I have. For the past several hours I have been reading about this and am still confused on some aspects of it. Like if I fit this am I really Transsexual or is this not the case if I am autogynephilia? Even after all the reading about it I am still confused what it all means.
Here is some background that may or may not make a difference. I am 30 years old and I have recently taken the COGIATA test and gotten a score of +170 once and +200 the other time which falls in to the Probable Transsexual. Now none of this may have anything to do with anything but I will mention it. I don't remember wanting to be a girl when I was real young. I rememeber wanting to play with my sister and her barbie dolls and I made her swear not to tell my father. Also when I was maybe 13 or 14 I made up some story about some bet that I had to be made up like a woman so I had my sister put the makeup on me. from my teenage years until this day I loved watching the talk show that had Transsexuals on them and want to be one. I frequent other boards were guys talk about how they would love to be with a Transsexual but I am different I want to be the Transsexual.
I guess out I left out the part on how I feel that I may fall into the autogynephilia catergory. The reading I have done is said that the person gets a sexual kick out of being a female and having female parts. Well I certainly meet that aspect of it. Now my thinking is to the other type of Transsexual do they not love the fact that they are becoming the woman they felt they should of been? Do they not start devloping breasts and are proud of them and want to look at them because they are finally getting the body they felt they should of had? I remember reading on a website of a Transsexual woman and she posted about when she got her Breast implants that she was so happy and she could not quit touching them or looking at them. Or there is a guy who use to work where I do he was in a wheelchair and eventually he was able to walk again. I am sure he was totally excited heck I was excited for him that god gave him the ability to walk again. Now I know being in a wheelchair is different but I guess you understand my point.
Now another part about autogynephilia I read was that it was hetro men who like woman. Well as I stated in another post is that I look at woman on the streets and think wow she is hot but I never do the same about men. However in order for me to climax I have to think of myself as a woman with a man. I also have been realizing that I love men! I look at men on the internet and just melt with desire to be with them. Now the weird thing is me being with a guy in the male body I am in now makes me sick at the thought as well as seeing pictures on the internet of men and other men kissing etc. This urge to be with a man has become so much stonger than ever before. I even did a stupid test I took a picture of a woman off the internet and one of a guy who I thought was hot and thought deepley who I would rather have as a sexual partner and the man won hands down!!
So does everybody think about this? I in NO WAY shape or form can afford to go to see a therapist so I am hoping somebody her can give me there thoughts on this. Thank You