As quite a few here seem to feel they should have no restrictions whatsoever from their SOs...
I believe the vast majority that water here are either in a "SO does not know" situation or some degree of DADT. Most seldom post/are professional lurkers.
What if your SO came to you out of the blue and proclaimed, "I know how much you enjoy dressing, so at home you can wear any clothing or shoes you want. But NO makeup, wigs or padding or shapewear".
1] You immediately reply with ____________________________________?
2] You are too stunned to say anything and have to chew on it a bit before you are able to react.
3] You race to her just as fast as your feet can carry you and simply say "Thank You" and leave it at that.
4] Other?
I have a feeling "most" GGs might have an "easier time" with "just" clothing?