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  1. 06-28-2014, 08:16 AM #1
    steff9271
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    Life after what I thought was the end,

    Over two years ago my wife and one of my sons walked out on me after emptying my bank account and telling everyone how I beat my wife and also abused my children, yes they went all out to ruin me for some reason. How much of this nastiness was born through me being a transvestite I will never know, I did however find out later that she had been meeting with a local lad for sex in hotel rooms. I was devastated to say the least, I went downhill fast and tried on 2 occasions to take my own life. Luckily I was unsuccessful. After moping around and feeling sorry for myself for a while I got together with a girl called Julie. I was out dressed when I met her and we clicked straight away. Julie never met my male side until 6 months after we met so I know 100% she not only tolerates me dressing she loves it and wants me to dress as much as I can! we have been in a relationship for a while now and must say it's totally fantastic having someone who loves me for who I am. I love her dearly and just wanted to let everyone know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I hope the picture I uploaded is on here as I would love to introduce you all to my beautiful girl Julie......I LOVE YOU JULIE XXXXXXXXX
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  2. 06-28-2014, 08:56 AM #2
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    Wow! A rare story with a happy ending! You are so fortunate now, after that horrific experience.
  3. 06-28-2014, 09:29 AM #3
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    Very nice story Stef.

    I like happy endings.
  4. 06-28-2014, 10:20 AM #4
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    great story love happy ending
  5. 06-28-2014, 10:35 AM #5
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    Congratulations. May you both be very happy together for a long long time to come.
  6. 06-28-2014, 10:51 AM #6
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    That is a beautiful story, the two of you together two beautiful people in love.
  7. 06-28-2014, 10:59 AM #7
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    your story is so inspiring! thank you for sharing, made my morning :-)
    "Why shouldn't art be pretty? There are enough unpleasant things in the world." -Pierre-Auguste Renoir
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    Very nice!!!
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    I thought all along you'd Be the death of me
    I met one tonight who wants What's left of me
    Brooks and Dunn
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
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    I wish you all the happiness you deserve.
  11. 06-28-2014, 11:55 AM #11
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    Steff - so happy it's turned out right for you in the end...

    You do look a sweet couple... I'm happily envious of you...

    Katey x
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    Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear"     Stefani Germanotta
  12. 06-28-2014, 01:21 PM #12
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    Gratz.
    I know how it can feel to be depressed, never any suicidal ideation, but I feel ya

    Glad to see the result of your bounce-back
    Samantha -x-
  13. 06-28-2014, 01:27 PM #13
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    You look like two happy GGs to me. What. A great direction your life took after driving so close to the edge. It goes to show that there may well be something/someone entirely unexpected around the corner. Had you succeeded in killing yourself, you would have robbed yourself and Julie of the relationship that has grown. You are both clearly meant for each other.

    Great story.
    Best,
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    Be all the woman that you can be!
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    . . . and now, On With The Show!
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    What a lovely storie, I am so happy that things turned out for you after all of the negative.
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    Congratulations! We never know what good things are ahead for us!
    Hugs
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    I love happy endings. I'm happy for you. It gives me hope, thank you.
  17. 06-29-2014, 03:01 AM #17
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    Thank you so so much for all the lovely replies girls. Its heartwarming to knw there are people out there that care. I am so looking forward to my future now, a future of pretty clothes and beautiful shoes thanks again Ladies xxxxxx
  18. 06-29-2014, 05:11 AM #18
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    Hi Steff and what a great story with a wonderful happy ending. I am glad to hear you found your way back from the dark to live in the light again. BTW you make a very cute couple.

    Hugs

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  19. 06-29-2014, 05:28 AM #19
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    Great Story with a happy ending. Two kindred spirits meet, two less lonely people in the world. Congratulations!!! I hope you both have many happy years ahead. Never forget to treat her right, she is a rare find.
  20. 06-29-2014, 06:35 AM #20
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    Great Story. What one will abuse? Another can certainly use!

    But in the words of the late but great Richard Pryor, once you find someone that loves you, truly loves you and accepts you for who and what your are?

    DON'T SCREW IT UP!
  21. 06-29-2014, 06:40 AM #21
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    Hi Steff, It's like the old saying goes, When one door closes another one opens.
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    I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !

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    Good for you, karma will get the ex sooner or later. Enjoy life.
  23. 06-29-2014, 07:20 AM #23
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    What a wonderful, heart-warming story -- thank you so much for sharing. I wish you and Julie all of the best!
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    . . . a future of pretty clothes and beautiful shoes


    What a touching story! Thank you for sharing.
  25. 06-29-2014, 08:56 AM #25
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    This gives hope to all of us going through hard times. Thanks for posting.
    But you forgot to mention what venue you were at when you found her. And most importantly....
    DOES SHE HAVE A SISTER? I'm on the next flight over!
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