Of course everyone is different, but there's a very real pattern I've noticed when I'm out. I make every effort to present well, but there's just too many "dead giveaways" for me to fool everybody!
Men seem to be immediately interested probably by the same things that get my attention when a woman walks by. The skirt, the heels, the swell of the breasts, and the wiggle in the walk.......... then they realize what they're looking at and look away for fear anyone will notice that they're really sort of attracted to this illusion!
Women, on the other hand, seemed intrigued by this classy old broad who's not exactly what she seems, but is still a female illusion and therefore non-threatening and someone interesting! It's almost as if they are free to flirt without the fear of attracting the wrong sort of guy! It's actually really cool. Adds a whole new dimension to "girls night out".