Hi,
One thing I was wondering is the suggestion that dressing makes you really happy! It seems in fact to cause so much trauma to so many, apart from the conflict with your SO I think the conflicts within yourself can be far greater, (am I wrong?) how do you get a partner/husband to accept himself for who he is, then maybe I cant try to move forward in a more positive way and all this will not be a huge wedge between us. In 31 years of marriage we had never contemplated splitting, in the last year we have been at crunch point 3 times! Getting tired of.....what next.