Last fall I got a room in Indy and dressed for the first time openly in the apt, i.e. in the presence of my landlord. Now I'm preparing to move to the SF Bay area to an apt where I want to dress openly (and maybe I'll meet other CDs in person).
I don't feel nervous, but I think about potential problems. I'm thinking about telling people in the apt building that I'm one of the 2 or 3% of "men" who prefer to crossdress, but I'm not trying to attract men. And I apologize to everyone that I'm not attractive yet and that I'm not a biological female etc. Does anyone else feel apologetic similarly? A lot of you fellow CDs look very attractive and I'm jealous. (It doesn't seem to help that I'm over 60.)
(Side note: I think of my body as my vehicle and not so much as my identity. I want my vehicle to be a work of art with mostly "female" qualities. From the neck down my work of art is pretty good, but above the neck is going to take quite a bit of work and I don't know if it will turn out well. But I'll see what I can do without too much effort or expense. My body and appearance aren't my main artwork. Society is. I want to collaborate with others to make society a great work of art.)