It's a cruel world out there is a common train of thought around here. Often coupled with "I could never pass in a million years so I won't go out dressed".
But how many people separate that fear into the obvious 2 parts?
1] Being busted by people that know me or...
2] Being busted by total strangers. Each and every stranger, man, woman or child of any age.
What if... your boss made you an offer to work out of town five days a week for DOUBLE your current salary. Not only would they put you up in a nice house for those five days, it would be right close to an airport. Every Friday afternoon they would fly you the 1000 miles home at their expense and fly you back to work Sunday night. Even pay for trips to and from the airport.
Would you take it? And if you did, would you now "dress" in a town where no one knows you? And just to muddy the picture, let's say the company has a very friendly LGBT policy/attitude in that they care not one bit what you do with your time or how you attire yourself once you leave work. Translated, ZERO worries of being fired.
Certainly some of you w/o SOs have made a move like this as a permanent move?