The definition of a person's gender seems to rest entirely on their plumbing arrangements. They are boy or girl, or. if these arrangements have been changed, TS. I am a boy because of my plumbing, which I have no wish to change, but in much of my behaviour and physique I am a girl. I dress as a girl most of the time and am submissive in my relationship with my wife who, I would argue, is more masculine than I am, despite her plumbing. She wears male-type clothes all the time, the make-up in the house is all mine and in the bedroom she takes the lead. She is physically stronger than me and has better developed upper body muscles. She has a larger jawline and neck than me. My equipment is very small and only responds to her taking the lead.
Who is the boy and who is the girl here?