So, I have never had any luck when it comes to telling women about my alter ego. In the 3 years I've gotten really serious about dressing I have seen like 10 different women. And every single one of them ran for the hills after I told them. If they don't run when they hear I dress like a woman sometimes then they definitely bolt when they hear I'm bi too. I've done all sorts of ways. I've told some straight up before we even met the first time, I've told some after a few dates. And some I waited months to tell. My personal opinion is to be upfront about it as soon as possible. Not right away but after a few dates I think is good. If I say it right away I don't stand a chance. If I wait to say it after we have developed feelings for each other then she runs and we both get hurt. So I feel it's best to say it somewhere in the middle. Not right away, but not wait too long. But it just sucks that not a single one has been accepting of it. She doesn't even have to be involved or anything. Just be accepting is all I ask. Once or twice a month Rachel gets released onto the world and it's so much fun I refuse to stop. I refuse to let a woman make me choose. I am who I am. Her making me choose between her and dressing is on the same level as her making me choose between guitar and her. Sorry babe, but i'm picking the other. Lol. Anyways now that the rant is complete, how did you girls tell you're S.O. or someone you were dating? Were your experiences like mine? Do you find there is very, and i stress very, few women who accept our lifestyle?