Do you think our pics is the gallery are used for?

[Lena]

I was looking through the gallery admiring the makeup and trying to get dressing/posing ideas. I and we, look at these images as admirers but do you think they are used for fetish? Do you fear your pic will end up being used on another site to satisfy someone's fetish fantasy? If you're straight, how would that make you feel if other guys were getting excited over your pictures?

[natalie edwards]

Yeah I've thought about that. I'm sure it happens all the time. I'm not saying with mine necessarily but in general. Just look at the stats of any particular thread. There may be 20 replies and a thousand views. Yes I realize the other 980 viewers aren't going to add their oohs and aahs but still that's a lot with nothing to say.
As a straight guy it doesn't bother me at all. I guess its kind of a validation. But then again how would we ever know if someone was using our pics for self gratification?

[AllieSF]

I do not know if they have enhanced the security here or not. But about 2-3 years ago I found pictures of one of our attractive members here who used to do semi-professional photo shoots and actually some professional ones for an on line CD clothing and accessory store on Criagslist advertising for hook ups. She let me know that they must have copied them for their own personal use. I also found another member's picture in the same area after that. So, if you are very concerned then you need to do what is necessary to protect yourself and make yourself feel better.

Personally, when I post pictures here I accept that anything could happen to them, and I post anyway. What someone else gets off on is their thing and not my problem because I have no control over that.

[Isabella Ross]

My two cents: I couldn't care less. If someone -- anyone, regardless of gender -- uses them for enjoyment, I'm fine with that. Not crazy about commercial uses, but like Allie says, caveat emptor.

[Anna H]

Well, a lot of us are really pretty, but i don't worry about that
myself....(i don't have much anyway)

There's far too much that's available, So much easier, from
girls who are looking for those "admirers". I can't see our
very tame stuff being of much use for anyone's fantasies.

Of course there are people who'd get a charge out of any
thing they see, but i wouldn't personally worry about it.

I tried most every other site I could find in the past year
and I feel like here is the safest place there is to post pictures
of ourselves.

Now i just need to make something *worth* posting...lol!

[samantha rogers]

I am no software geek but I bet there is software available that would enable you to isolate the info in a pic you have posted and then search the web for any location where it exists. Anyone know of such software?

[Lorileah]

google images

[Jenniferathome]

If anyone is getting excited over me, they have set the bar way too low!

[Nadya]

As a straight guy it doesn't bother me at all. I guess its kind of a validation. But then again how would we ever know if someone was using our pics for self gratification?

I have to agree. I'm not really threatened by it.

[MayaMe]

For me it does not bother me if people enjoy my photos and would give me a boost of confidence if I ever even found out about it. I don't like the idea of them being used for commercial use or to miss represent me as someone else. I think for the most part we are safe from that hear. There are easier places to get photos for them to get that. To find images online you could always use Google image search to look for your photos, but then you have to upload them to Google and I think that would be a bigger risk then posting here.

[Eryn]

I wish I were attractive enough to worry about such things. If someone is getting titillated by my pictures they are an odd bird indeed.

[SO1Adam12]

Seriously, I think you are all great, but don't overthink....

[kimdl93]

I am not big on posting pics, but it has nothing to do with fears about what anyone might attempt. Sure the images can be copied in one manner or another, but the likelihood is that they are not. There is an abundance of free, explicit trash out ther to feed the appetites of the people you are worrying about.

[Rachelakld]

I would expect they would have to be very talented at Photoshop to "enjoy" my pictures.
More than happy to sell my image if it could earn serious money

[JessicaJHall]

Bear in mind the Admins have set this up so you can't see the photo section, anyone else's, or even your own profile before you get in 10 posts. I just went through this process, and it's not easy to get in 10 sincere posts, unless you are really interested.
I think it affords a nice layer of protection, and like others have said if CD pics is your thing, boy are there plenty of other places to go. I saw one forum that was just trashy.. not my thing but it's still a free internet.

[Donnagirl]

Made me laugh... Talk about desperate if they're using my pics....

[Hell on Heels]

Hell-o Lena'
Exactly what everyone has said! Why the fear? Anyone recognizing you would have to explain why they were looking for you in the first place, And then end up at a CD site.
How good is Google Images anyway? Has anyone tried it with boy mode vs girl mode?
In my mind I look so differently, I think that no one would recognize me. Even my SO didn't recognize my avatar! So if someone did say "I google imaged you and a pic of a girl in a dress came up". "What are you talking about" is always available!
Life wont end if your outed, It may improve!
Send us some pics!
Much Love,
Kristyn

[Marcelle]

Hi Lena,

Never gave it real thought . . . hmmm . . . well if they are that desperate to use my picture . . . just saying

Hugs

Isha

[natcrys]

I have had people message me to tell me explicitly what they've done while looking at my photos.. sometimes even sending me photos of their handy work. (I'll leave it at that.. )

And yeah, I don't really get bothered by these things.. as far as I'm concerned, it's harmless.. just don't send me photos!

What I am worried about though is people using my pics for more malicious intent. I've heard from a few Indian friends that my older unmarked pics are being used on a few dating sites. I hate to think what could happen if someone actually agrees to go on a date with such an impersonator.

[Kate Simmons]

Once we post pics they are out of our hands. If my picture makes someone happy in some way, so be it.In the end it is what it is anyway.

[Allison Chaynes]

I have seen images from this site posted to porn and dating sites without permission. It happens.

[Cheryl T]

As Donnagirl said, they must be desperate if their using my pics for their enjoyment.
That being said, if they are, then omg I got my first compliment....LOL.

[Amanda L.]

Ha! Well the laugh is on them then isn't it?
If they want to beat their drum to a dude in a dress well I will never know, don't really want to know and don't really care.
Whatever floats your boat!
Luv
Amanda

[natalie edwards]

So how would anyone look for their pics elsewhere? Do you google your user name from here? How would know if your pics were posted somewhere else?

[mechamoose]

I was looking through the gallery admiring the makeup and trying to get dressing/posing ideas. I and we, look at these images as admirers but do you think they are used for fetish?

You can't control what others do, only control what YOU do.

I put my trash out to the curb every week, I have no choice if the 'can guy' comes along or not.

You can't limit yourself based on what someone *might* do. So you/we share pics. GG's get all kinds of unwelcome attention all the time, don't they?

You need to be you and not be sorry for it.

<3

- MM