In about a year, I'll be married to my fiancé and maybe children could be in the near future after that. Those with families with young children, what do you do about dressing and having children? First, are you open to everyone that you are a CD/TG? Are you open with your children about it? If you are still closeted, do you still tell them? Are you worried they will talk about it in school? This has been a question I've thought about for a while. Who knows where I'll be (in terms of job and my status of CD) when I'm ready for children. My fiancé said that if I want to stay in the closet, that being open with them might not be good for that. Maybe this will give me the push to come out of the closet because keeping secrets can definitely have an emotional impact. All comments welcome.