Finally made the decision to go dressed full time at home with my wife.
And so far my wife is being supportive.
This is day two.
Little stressed out.
Hugs
Julie summers
Finally made the decision to go dressed full time at home with my wife.
And so far my wife is being supportive.
This is day two.
Little stressed out.
Hugs
Julie summers
Bravo! Wow, that's huge.
Would love to know what you decided to wear.
Julie, I hope it goes well for you ! What was your final push to make this life changing decision ?
I bet you can't wait to be counting months and then years !
Way to go Jules. Aside from most of the weekend I'm full time at home.
Angie
Nice jules, wish I had the courage
Hope things continue to go well
Hey jules, I to have recently been close to ft at home with my girlfriend and it has been awesomeI am usually sporting yoga pants, a cami, painted toes and forms. Only problem is I find my two worlds blending togeather more than ever and I often don't want to return to my male role. Have you found this to be happening?
Hi Jules, Just be careful not to overwhelm her now.
Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
Congratulations! I'd love to go full time at home but it's so much work and I'm lazy.
I've been doing it for many months now and Love it!
I can pass as a guy if I have to for a few hours....lol!
Congrats and good luck!
Francine
"Flatter me, and I may not believe you.
Critisize me and I may not like you.
Ignore me and I may not forgive you.
Encourage me ... and I will never forget you!"
Wow, that's quite a step, Jules! Good luck and thanks to your wife for supporting you.
Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Close on to 8 yrs. now, but I was very lucky; my SO & I had been together for 35 years by then and had much love, acceptance, trust and respect for each other and it only grew the longer we were together. It also didn't hurt that she grew up in a country that clothing differences between sexes were much less significant than it is in the west (frankly, I don't know about that connotation; it's west of here! European perspective, I guess).
One thing I would caution about if you have an SO; take it in small bites at first, something I didn't do initially. I realized later that I had been unfair, as my joy in her acceptance was so great I couldn't contain it. She handled it incredibly well, however; as I said, she trusted me.
(written on my 30th annual 39th birthday)
Last edited by donnalee; 08-18-2014 at 01:21 AM.
ALWAYS plan for the worst, then you can be pleasantly surprised if something else happens!
"The important thing about the bear is not how well she dances, but that she dances at all." - Old Russian Proverb (with a gender change)
This is for Teresa.
The final push for me was I had enough of trying to hide and bury who I was.
I am not going to sugar coat this I'm going to be honest.
I was I could not see myself getting old continuing on the path I was on.
The waves of sadness that would come over me were brutal.
I even started to think about ending it all.
So I did not have a choice really.
There is a lot more but let's leave it at that.
Aubrey Lee
I have a little bit of a problem but it's controllable
It has to be and I'm taking things slow and trying not to overwhelm her and myself.
And being a tomboy helps a lot.
Thank you everyone else.
I hope I don't crash and burn.
Hugs
Julie summers
Hi all. I fully dress at home and underdress at work or when out in boy mode. I love to dress up for my wife and she helps me pick out my clothes when we go shopping. She has me try on most of the clothes we buy in the store to make sure they look and fit well on me.
Michelle
Wow, Jules, that is huge! I can understand your motivation. I hope it continues to go well for you.
Hugs,
Erin
Dressing full time? I'm sure that would just ruin it for me.
Last edited by Jenny Elwood; 08-18-2014 at 08:42 AM.
I am so happy for you Julie.
I don't understand why you are dressing if it stresses you out. Is there a reason you can't take a break when you want to?
My problem with dressing full time at home is, there are things I don't feel like doing dressed because I don't want to damage my girlie clothes. Also, sometimes people knock on the door and want to talk to "Homer" when only "Krisi" is available. The excuse that he is in the shower only works the first few times.
Congratulations. I'm also out at home and have permission from my wife to dress whenever I like. It's hugely liberating.
I also can at home at any time with the SO 'blanket permission' to do so at home.
Too bad I have a house full of kids that come and go at will at all hours.
Ahh, school starting this week. Summer was a bit rougher than normal this year for a few reasons.
Jules,
If you take it steady and don't push the envelope too far too quickly then I'm sure things will become calmer. Just be aware that it may become so normal that when the door bell goes you answer it without thinking and surprise the postman!
Who dares wears Get in, get out without being noticed
Congrats Jules!!! I'm really happy for you, and that your wife is so understanding and accepting. I really love hearing stories like this.
I've finally mastered the art of making salads. My favorite is a delicious Mediterranean salad.
Congratulations. Please keep us informed and how it is going.
I'm surprised you describe yourself as stressed. I spent the last three weeks 24/7, and it was just great. Very mellow and stress-free. I'm back in male mode for a while now, and the stress is starting to build again.
I hope that this decision works for you, and I hope you find your best path in life, whatever that might be.
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