I'm working on a letter to be opened if my adult children snoop like they did when they were young and find my girl things. Or maybe it will be the letter that's there with my things and they have to clean out the house after I die. Or maybe it will be the letter I give them as part of my coming out.
I have a tendency to write too much and really want to hone it down to the critical ideas. So far I have these; I'm the same person they've always known; their mother knew and supported me; Some information about the difference between gender and sex and this is gender; it's important that they talk to me (assuming I'm alive) after they read the letter; This is something that defines me and always has; I'm much more involved in this than they might believe and; I respect them and expect them to respect me in return so let me know what they plan to do with the knowledge so I'm not in the dark, say or do the wrong thing.
So what else should I consider including or what is reasonable to leave out? Have any of you written letters and what kind of response did you get?