So a small bit of background: the first person i told about my cding, was my now ex gf. She broke up with me for reasons unrelated and i was a bit devastated, we left on an open discussion policy and i can still approach her about cd related topics and she will help me as much as possible. She was also the one that let me grow with it and learn to accept it as part of who I am. But anyway onto my main point
I always thought of her viewing my dressing as a negative thing and I couldn't shift that mind set. Yet today, I have had the sudden thought that I never asked her what the positives of it were.. and i was surprised... why hadn't i thought this sooner?
I am just wondering if that is a common occurrence for anyone else? Do we ask those in the know about what benefits it brings to a relationship or a friendship? or are we just worriers about it and always seeing it as a negative?
Clara x