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    What GG’s idiosyncrasies fascinate you?

    Hi Folks

    I am fascinated by the idiosyncrasies of GGs, ones that are necessary because of their body shape, the need for modesty and decorum etc. For example:

    1. Smoothing out the dress/skirt under the thighs when sitting down
    2. Bending with the knees together to pick something off the floor rather than bending over
    3. Putting on a jumper and lifting the front over the boobs and straightening it out etc.
    4. Flicking long hair away from the face.
    5. Running the hands up each leg to smooth out tights/stockings

    They are ones I try to copy and I would be interested in what others find interesting.

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    Hi Vikky,

    While I wouldn't say I'm fascinated by the mannerisms you mentioned I am familiar with them. Any CD or TG person would be studying the mannerisms of the gender they are working at copying. Consequently one would be working to adopt and use they mannerisms correctly so as to portray the person they appear to be.

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    Hi Vikky, One thing that always fascinates me is watching a lady with her leg crossed and letting
    the heel of the shoe slip off of her foot and dangle the shoe off of her toe, It's mesmerizing
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    The complete inability to get ready before you get to where you are going. Example. Your driving to drop her off. Not I tilt the car is stopped will she gather her stuff put on her shoes check her makeup etc etc.

    Is that what you meant? Because it truly fascinate me.
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    Crossing one foot in front of the other while standing, a la ballerina...

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    Girls will pretty much just do what they need to do to stay nice. Once we get in that "zone" or "groove" we will pretty much do the same when Gussied up.
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    The mannerisms that I try to emulate are from those of attractive GGs... I look for the girls that have style and class. The ones that dress, walk and act like they are respectful of themselves and have some style. Big or small, tall or short, it doesn't matter. Class is class. With that in mind, I watch and listen for the click clack of heels. There's a rhythm that has a cadence all to itself. Then in my favorite heels, try to replicate it...

    Other nuances include sitting but first in the car, putting my hands down the back side of my legs before I sit down and walking with elbows in.....

    These are a few of my favorite things...... LOL...

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    I would agree that I mostly find female mannerisms that involve clothes the most mesmerizing factor.

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    I love it when GG's (and CD's) do that 'boob check', you know they look straight down at their upper tropics as we pass each other.
    I was entering a casino and this lovely gal did the check when she saw me approaching. As I held the door for here I said, 'They're still there." That got me a huge smile from her lovely face.

    Funny how I catch myself unconsciously doing the same thing now!
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    Hi.

    So what about real life not just out on the street or the mall,s or having coffe or what ever .

    What when we are at home doing house hold work does that count and not dressed in the same way as we do when out , the clothes may be changed or a little different , does not change who we are , or do you see us differently because we are not dressed for that outing or do , just in work clothes or as i do many times in over all s ,

    to day i would have talked with some 16 people at our Museum at the shops one of our Church people and many others who i meet many days of the week and talk about things we are involved with and to do with our groups,

    For a normal day wearing my jean skirt top was a jumper and headwear sneakers and over jacket,

    oh and two small work jobs to do , at one of our Hotels and our Museum ,

    You know i gather your looking at what you wont to see, what about those of us who just normal nothing fancy just your down to earth get it done with out any of this we have to be dressed in a particular way or style to meet with approval to be seen as normal women ,

    We may not get dressed in the way you,d like us to be , yet you know what , we are the ones who get things done we may not even show our attractiveness , maybe some of us cant yet we are there in the background just working quiety away doing what we know we can ,

    Renne,

    i know i dont have style and class, and dont look very, if at all feminine , i may be ,i just dont have that look,

    i wonder what you,d say if you could meet this maybe different woman , and by interacting with me , maybe youd see something that would show you we have other attributes about us that you may even like about us or even would like to have ,

    Any way s just a thought

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    Vicky I guess when you dress regularly they are practical reactions to the way clothes move on the body ! Smoothing out a full skirt when sitting makes it more comfortable than sitting on the folds !

    I notice women do touch their clothes more than men ! If you watch TV presenters the male doesn't touch his hair or clothes very much but a female will sit crossed legged and hold her knees, brush her hand down her thighs or gently push her fingers through her hair !

    I know people have analysed these movements and suggest they're subconcious messages to the people around them ! Women do this far more than men ! I don't know which side of me is sending out the messages but I do like flirting with GGs !!

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    When I first read the OP my thoughts immediately moved to "feminine clues" and that list seems endless, and critical to all of us who wish completely to submerge ourselves in our feminine selves. To me these feminine traits send messages to others and to ourselves that we have mentally left our masculine selves, if only for a while. I can't begin to count how many times my wife has started a thought with, "just so you know, a woman would never....." and then explain what masculine thing Tina just did, or what juvenile girl mistake Tina just ran into. Of course, that latest bit of insight would make me alert to watch the woman around me every day to observe what I had just learned.

    There are just so many of these little nuances to learn! And so much fun!

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    Ever notice that when you are in a supermarket, a large department store, or the like, the GG's (especially the middle-aged and older ones) tend to hum along - and sometimes even sing along - in a muted voice to the soft rock/classic rock "elevator music" style golden oldies that are often piped through the PA systems? They seem to do this almost involuntarily and subconsciously, and it is as if they have fallen under the spell of the Pied Piper of Hamelin.

    I have yet to see a man do the same thing...

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    Curling hair with a finger while reading a book. Maybe because I shave my head and don't have that ability. Putting on hose, bunched to the foot and caressingly pulling them up. I put my socks on in a similar way. Probably why the toes of my socks are the first to go and my wife says she doesn't know anyone who puts socks on the way I do.

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    I often have often seen GG's running their hands gently up and down the tops of their thighs just above their knee; a soft caress. I finally understood it when I started shaving my legs. Smooth, soft skin feels really nice...much better than rough and hairy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BLUE ORCHID View Post
    Hi Vikky, One thing that always fascinates me is watching a lady with her leg crossed and letting
    the heel of the shoe slip off of her foot and dangle the shoe off of her toe, It's mesmerizing
    I really like this too and now I find myself doing it quite often.
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    To the reply of letting heels fall off the foot and dangle them by the toes......

    I resort to that...

    It is only because my b***dy heels are too large and fall off anyway.
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    As for #1 and 2, I find myself doing them while dressed enfemme for reasons of modesty. When sitting down in a skirt or dress that is around knee length or shorter, I find find that the dress/skirt under the thigh can ride up under you, so by placing your hands under the thighs you can prevent this from happening . Bending over in a skirt or dress especially a short one is not a good idea if you want to preserve modesty, so you bend down with your knees together. In fact when sitting down, or bending down with the knees or getting out of a car in a skirt/dress it is a good idea to keep your knees together.

    On #4, I find myself flicking stray hairs out of my face.When en femme.

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    For me it is the care that dressing requires, stockings and pantyhose must be straight and not laddered, and so sexy is functional. the skirt or slip that demands that your thighs stay together as you work your feet into close fitting shoes. Not to mention wriggling your ass as you slide into silky control briefs or panties.

    Then there are all the elements of gait that take more effort to emulate: the elbows staying close to the waste and more motion happening at the elbow, the need to keep the knees locked out in high heels to keep balanced.

    And then there is the need to respect makeup..like the catching of a tear with the tips of the pinky before it escapes the tear duct. And just about everything, women can be so gorgeous!

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    When a GG puts on a top, coat or sweater, then reaches back and pulls out her hair and smoothed it down, I love seeing that.
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    For me, what I can't get, is how so many women are fascinated by celebrities and fictional characters lives, and spend so much time examining the tiniest bits of lives of other people who they will never meet. The other night at work was very slow; the women spent the entire shift talking about TV show/movie characters as if they were real people, interspersing that with discussions about kardashian sisters, singers and the guys who've cheated on them, who which celebrity is dating, and their emotional involvement in all this stuff was considerable. And the teen girl's discussions about vampires, as if these people really exist??? Holy crap.

    All about people who they will never meet, who have absolutely no bearing on their lives. What a phenomenol waste of time. And don't even get me started about guys who indulge in their fantasy sports leagues, they're just as crazy.

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    Hi Folks

    Thanks for all your brilliant observations of the little nuances GGs have that we try to emulate. I love them all and try and apply them when en femme. I have summarised the ones that I like best:

    reaches back and pulls out her hair and smoothed it down (after putting on a coat)
    letting heels fall off the foot and dangle them by the toes
    running their hands gently up and down the tops of their thighs just above their knee; a soft caress.
    Curling hair with a finger
    Putting on hose, bunched to the foot and caressingly pulling them up
    do that 'boob check', you know they look straight down at their upper tropics.

    And I like “critical to all of us who wish completely to submerge ourselves in our feminine selves.” I must go away and do some submerging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2B Natasha View Post
    The complete inability to get ready before you get to where you are going. Example. Your driving to drop her off. Not I tilt the car is stopped will she gather her stuff put on her shoes check her makeup etc etc. .
    Your fascination is my frustration.
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    I believe when I am fully attired as a woman; dress, heels, undergarments and wig, it become natural to adopt the mannerisms you listed. It did not take me long to adopt them. The only other mannerism that comes to mind instantly is adjusting the straps to my slip. The straps sometimes fall off the shoulder, and, it becomes necessary to adjust the slide or pull the slip down if it has risen up.

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