I've met a zillion TS and CD's over the years. And, I've been out too many times to count. Most of those dressers and myself can't pass nor do we care much about it anymore.
There have been a few times, I can count them on the fingers of one hand, where I passed up close.
And, I can tell u that the way folks treated me when they believed I was a female as opposed to tolerating/humoring the "man in a dress" is very different. Maybe others here can explain it better than I? It's NOT all good. I was at a vanilla Halloween dance waiting with GGs for the guys to come by, look us over, and ask us to dance! Or not---. I may have passed because a few guys danced with me, once. Ha ha! But, most of my dancing was with other wall flower GGs.
The point is this:
Some of us have the need to go out dressed. And, most of us can't pass. We go anyway. If u feel u r one of those? By all means stick your toe in the water and see if u like it. If so, get out there and be u.
But, if u r one of those with the Golden Fleece? The Magic beans? The Power to Pass? U may have experiences most of us will never completely understand or appreciate.