Devida, it's the above that causes confusion about the transgender definition. What if there's no internal female identity and it's literally all about the external aesthetics? What about those who dress as women because it turns them on as a MAN? I guess they technically fit into the T in LGBT, but should they? Do these private (often sexual) dressers really fit in with those who live with public discrimination every day just for being themselves? Do most TS even want to be associated with pleasure dressers?
I suspect it's irrelevant as the more publicly active CDers will likely be further along the TG line. Still, it's a very broad definition and I think the T probably does need narrowing down a bit so as not to include those who don't desire it. It's hardly supportive if people feel forced to be part of something by default, and not because they feel they belong there. I love to have a glass of champagne every now and then, but that doesn't mean I can relate to people who are alcoholics, or that I need the support of AA. Not yet, anyway!