I met a fairly nice lady for dinner a few weeks ago that I had met on an online dating service.
We were having a very nice time when out of the blue, she tells me a story about an encounter with a crossdresser that went into the ladies restroom while she was in there and how it made her uncomfortable.
I have no idea where the story came from as we were talking about coffee up to that point; she is a barista.
I immediately did a mental check - did I leave some polish on my nails or perhaps a remnant of lip stick or some clue but nothing.
I was dressed very masculine and very conservative.
Since I wasn't ready to go "there" and talk about my dressing, I made a weak joke that I wasn't sure she would want to see me in a dress(As I have mentioned before, I don't even come close to passing, so there as some truth to it as well) and turned the conversation to something else.
Anyway, after that point, she never made eye contact with me and the conversation became very stilted.
I keep wondering if perhaps her son or someone she is close to crossdresses and she was trying to scope out my position on the issue or something like that and I failed her test.
The discomfort along with a few other things, pretty much helped me decide not to call her again. I was just wondering if any of you have had a similar experience and what you think might have been her motive for telling me that story out of the blue.
Just curious about your opinions as I know too well, you all have them and don;t mind sharing.