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  1. 10-13-2014, 04:17 PM #26
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    Quote Originally Posted by docrobbysherry View Post
    This has become a daily routine for me on Sherry's FB page:

    I get a Friend request from a guy and ask him, "Why do u want to Friend me?"

    Their usual reply, "Because you're hot!"

    My remark, "Did u know I'm actually a 70 y/o, straight male?"

    The guy, "That's cool. I'm bi."

    Sigh! MEN just won't take "NO" for an answer!
    This has to be both the funniest and probably most accurate answer of all...

    I am just beginning to understand (yes, yes, yes - how naive can one be... ) that cd.com does not represent the broader reality of crossdressing, t-girls, traps, etc. that pervade both the internet and the sub-culture of clubs, fetish and BDSM peripheries - and that is what you touch on with sites that are more representative of the real world...

    We are much more highbrow and intellectual here... we like to throw in a decent proportion of gender issue discussions with the favourite panty colour threads, just to keep a reasonable balance...



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  2. 10-13-2014, 06:38 PM #27
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    I think you hit the "spitball" in the right place!
  3. 10-14-2014, 01:09 AM #28
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    Why are people so fixated on percentages and numbers?
    Some are fixated on why am I like this and what does it all mean?
    If I do this I must be that so obviously I'm gay or Bi.
    Holy crap just enjoy your yourself and don't sweat the small stuff.
  4. 10-14-2014, 04:43 AM #29
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    Most men don't read your bio that tells them you are really a man because all they see is a "Hot Woman" in the profile picture.
    I used to have a Facebook set up for Jen and only added friends who knew about this side of me but of course i joined some Cross Dressing groups on there and i used to get tons of messages a day from male admirers who were mostly foreign wanting me as their girlfriend.
    They knew what i was though as i either always told them straight away or they twigged from me being in a group for Cross Dressers. It soon got annoying so i closed my profile lol

    These days since starting again as Jen and after evaluating what went wrong the first time, i am not so open to people about dressing as a woman as i was a bit oblivious to how much it got some peoples backs up and that some people can be ok to your face but then talk about you after.
    I only share my pics in private groups like this and a closed LGBT Aspergers group on facebook and its great to talk to some brilliant people who understand you and know where you are coming from.

    And yes i wouldn't mind a nice bi-sexual man to meet for real rather than on a screen 😉
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  5. 10-14-2014, 11:13 AM #30
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    My female FB page has many from here and actual GG's that are accepting.
    No indication of being a guy, its all girl and I don't post ton of my pics either.
    I have a few male admirers but they seem nice and don't ask me out or get nasty with me.
  6. 10-14-2014, 12:49 PM #31
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    @Jaylyn,
    Maybe some of us ARE easy. LOL.

    Diana,
    I think its a fantasy, but also some men wonder what it would be like to be with another man and by them "choosing" a CDer, it may "justify" in their minds that they are not gay or bi.
    Thats my 2 cents. Keep the change ma'am. jk.

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  7. 10-14-2014, 02:56 PM #32
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    It may be "forbidden fantasy investigation". As there are closeted CDers, there are closeted CDer admirers. What people (myself included) search for online means nothing in real-life. Except for those who make it real. I never did.
  8. 10-14-2014, 03:26 PM #33
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zylia View Post
    It really wouldn't surprise me if there are way more men looking for CD/TG in an 'adult' context than the other way around like Diana suggested
    No surprise at all. men's sex drive is waaaaaaaay stronger than womens', and yes, most of the time, it's only sex that they want, whether with women or other men.
    Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
  9. 10-14-2014, 10:59 PM #34
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