Where does stress come into play with dressing, feminizing, with those who are DADT? Does anyone get stressed in everyday life whose SO knows, but doesn't want to talk about clothing, gender, etc.? I realize that dressing causes tons of stress and anxiety. It's where I'm at. But, my question ends up being, for those who are DADT, if today sucked, do you or will you do things you push the envelope with your SO who doesn't want to talk?.