I've just got back from a Goth weekend at Whitby (anyone else there?) and had a great time en femme. One night though I was in a pub returning from the ladies when I felt someone tug at my wig. Luckily I had pinned it on, sometimes I don't, and it stayed in place. I turned around and asked the bloke what he was doing and got the reply "I wanted to see if it was a wig". I then asked if he would have done this to a woman and he apologised. Walking away I felt quite good for challenging him but can see how a woman might be scared to. Got talking later to a girl who was with him, apparently he's nervous in social situations!
Didn't let it spoil the evening and weekend.